Avoid Mean Words on Having “War” with Couples
February 17th, 2012 | 
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In the heat of debate, there are often outbreaks of violence words come from the woman or man. This should be avoided because it only hurts each party. Why this is so? “The problem is when the debate scenes has begun to reap the cruel words and accompanied by insults can hurt their feelings, and then this condition can not be resolved too,” explained Rita DeMaria, PhD, Director of Relationship Education Council for Relationships in Philadelphia, as reported Women’s Health.
In addition, according to a study at the University of Chicago, the human brain has an integrated “negative bias” that makes us more responsive to unpleasant news. Why? Back to view the human characteristics of ancient caves men, that our survival as a species depends on the ability to distance themselves from danger. So, starting from that time, our brains evolved protection system that is not possible to ignore the bad. That’s why you should minimize the negative impact of the words that you toss to your couple when having an argument. Remember, debate or argue with each other is not aimed at making each other angry and disappointed. However, this is done as an attempt to resolve a problem facing both. And do not be too put into the hearts of negative words from the couple, because it only adds to liver injury.
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